From my current read, Ben Young and Dr Sam Adams’ book – The One: A Realistic Guide to Choosing Your Soul Mate.
- Is there chemistry? Are you sexually/ physically attracted to your partner?
- Is your relationship natural? Do things flow naturally or are you spending a lot more time resolving issues than demonstrating a natural fit?
- Would this be a good friend? If the chemistry was removed, is it someone you’d want to be with, whose company you enjoy?
- Can you accept his or her personality as is? Could you spend the rest of your life with the person as they are?
- Would you want your kids to be like him or her? Could you envision a future in which your children turn out like him or her?
Oh and to pass the test, it must be ‘Yes’, 100%…